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Spring in Ohio

Eeesh! It has been a crazy week here. Isabelle has finally started sleeping (better) during the night (I mean only getting up once!) since the doctor started her on antibiotics last week. She is still ultra-weezy but overall seems to be feeling 100% better. And oddly enough, this has produced in me a deep deep sleep that I don’t remember sleeping in a long time. So deep that I don’t remember her crying or Conrad getting up to comfort her. I mean, I don’t remember it at all! Conrad is suspecting that I’m just PRETENDING to sleep so that he has to get up and get the baby, but really I’m not waking up!

Last night, Conrad had a class at church till around 10ish and we had Tornado Warnings all night long. It was my first tornado warning with a baby. I started thinking through an “emergency plan” seeing as we don’t have a basement. We do have a crawl space…ewh…but it does have a light. So I cleared out the crap that was on top of the trapdoor and turned on the light and left the door open to the furnace room. If I heard that fateful siren, I thought, “I’ll run in, grap the baby (first, then the scrapbooks..I know I know, but I spent a LOT of time on those puppies) and a blanket and run to the furnace room, open the trapdoor, and go in if necessary.


Here’s Isabelle with a big stuffed bunny from her cousin in India, Susanna. It’s still bigger than she is!

Masala Chai & the Short North

A few years ago, before I moved to the suburbs of Columbus, I lived downtown in an artsy area called the Short North. I shared a cute old brick duplex with a friend from ORU. We had a grand time living there and spring was beautiful as all of the streets around our house were brick paved and lined with dogwood trees that bloomed white in March and April.

Of course, one of the more interesting things about living downtown was that it was definitely a gay neighborhood. I witnessed, on more than one occasion, events that seared themselves into my brain! On the upside, it was beautifully “gentrified” and was, overall, a pretty safe place to live.

Once I had some friends from South Africa visiting, and we went to enjoy some coffee at one of the outdoor café’s near our house. As we sat outside chatting, a white van screeched by while the driver screamed some kind of anti-gay slogan and slammed one of my friends with rotten eggs! We were all horrified…then laughed hysterically that they hit the only straight people in the whole place! My friend commented the rest of the night that he “took one for the team.”

But I digress. What I really wanted to share was the fact that while we lived there, one of my favorite haunts was a cool tea house called Zen Cha. They made the best Masala Chai! So when I married into an Indian family and started learning how to make Indian food, one of the first things that I learned was the art of Chai. But my husband used to laugh at me wanting to add too many spices to my tea. Apparently, masala a north Indian tradition.

But I am happy to report that I found the perfect Masala Chai recipe in my favorite Indian Cook Book (my brother-in-law says that with this book he doesn’t miss home cooking anymore!) And since I have been into sharing recipes lately, I thought I would share this one with you too:

1 ½ -1 ¾ C of Milk (whole)
½ - ¾ C of water
1 Tbsp of Black tea
2 Tbsp of Sugar (to taste)
2 cm piece of ginger dry roasted (or dry spice is fine too)
2 cm piece of cinnamon stick
4 green cardamom pods
4 black peppercorns
4 cloves

Put all of the spices into a spice grinder, or mortar and pestle, and roughly crush. Put milk and water into pot, along with ground spices and black tea. Bring to a boil. Remove from heat and add sugar. Let seep for 2-5 minutes. Filter out spices and tea into cups. For more froth, pour tea from one cup to another and back till frothy. Yum!!!

Strike a Pose

This weekend we took Isabelle for her first professional pictures. Not that the kid isn't photographed much! They turned out beautiful! We went to one of those mall places that a friend from work went to and her pictures were wonderful. So we decided to try it out.

Of course I went armed with a $20 coupon and wound up spending ALOT more when I saw the great shots. When we saw the pictures and the "packages" I asked Conrad what he wanted to get, and he said, "Get whatever you want, babe." and walked away to change Isabelle's diaper...rookie mistake! And I thought he really meant it...so I did!

But I would love your opinion on which are your favorites. If you have a chance, go to Flash Portraits and click on "My portraits" to the left. Then enter "Michael" and the password is Isabelle. Let me know which ones I should get!

Isabelle's Home Away from Home

Before Isabelle was born I really worried about putting her in someone else’s care while I went to work. After Isabelle was born, during my 3 month maternity leave, I DREADED putting her into daycare. I wanted to stay home with her, but it just wasn’t feasible at the time. We planned on placing her with a friend of mine, Tara, who wanted to watch a child or two at home, so she could stay home with her little guy. Unfortunately, around the time Isabelle was born, Tara took a job as director of a Daycare center.

The daycare was right behind our house, is housed and operated by our old church, and I was even on the advisory board that helped establish the daycare a few years back. So, needless to say, this was a good second choice for us.

I’m now pretty happy that she’s there. Isabelle LOVES daycare. When we take her there in the mornings, she all but jumps out of my arms into Miss Kim’s arms, her main caregiver. There is a great ratio, only one or two babies per one worker. And many of my friends retired mom’s work there part time. So we just love that Grandma Sally comes a couple of times a week to cuddle and hold Isabelle.

Not to mention, since I am friends with most everyone there, and Isabelle is such an easy-going baby, she tends to be a favorite  And people from church drop in to kiss her and hold her every now and then. I know that they do for her what they would do for their own children, and it gives us GREAT peace! When we walk in in the evening, it’s always peaceful and happy and kids worship music is usually playing…when I think about how much we pay, geeeze, its well worth the money!

Gravy & Biscuits

I had a couple of requests for this recipe, so I thought I would post it. I named it Grandma Margie’s but the name in the book is “Shorty’s Biscuits & Gravy” And I haven’t run this by Gram officially, so I may be taking liberties with her name!

Note: I found out, do not use a non stick pan, it’s like all of the grease, that you desperately need for the gravy evaporates! I was dumbfounded. The one time I WANTED grease in my food, it wasn’t there….I don’t get it. So truly, use a well seasoned iron skillet, if you have it. If not, probably a no non-stick pan would work. And I think Grandma brushes her biscuits with water before baking. And last but not least, make sure that your dough is NOT kneeded too much, and is ½ inch thick, and shake up the buttermilk before you add it to the recipe…lessons I learned the hard way.

Grandma Margie's Biscuits & Gravy

Biscuits
2 c all purpose flour-sifted
2 tsp baking powder
1/2 tsp baking soda
1/3 c crisco, chilled
3.4 c buttermilk
Preheat oven to 450 degrees, into flour, stir powder, soda, salt, cut in chilled crisco until looks like coarse meal. Add buttermilk. Stir lightly until all moistened. Form into ball and transport to lightly floured surface. Kneed about 6 times. Roll into 1/2 inch thick and cut into 2 inch disks. On oiled baking sheet bake for 16 minutes or until golden brown.

Gravy
1 pound meat
3 tsp flour
2 c whole milk
salt & pepper

Brown meat in iron skillet, transfer meat out, keeping 3 tbsp drippings in. Over medium heat, sprinkle flour and whisk 2 - 3 minutes until brown. Add milk and continue to stir until bubble and thickens, season with salt & pepper.



This is a picture of my Grandma at my Uncle's wedding with Vicky, Jona, and Jenna

Southern Cookin’ makes ya’ Good Lookin’

For years I have tried to make some of my Grandmothers “famous” recipes. Some I have mastered, some are adequate, and some I had come to accept total and complete failure. One of those is THE southern meal of Gravy & Biscuits. (By the way, Cracker Barrel, Bob Evans, McDonalds….ha! These are NOT real, but mere imitation!) I have had friends who flippantly tell me that they can make that…ya, those friends (who shall remain unnamed) who hail from Illinois, who’s family roots are in Minnesota…I don’t think so!!

The problem is that my Grandma tells me to add a pinch of this and a dash of that and then “eyeball” it to make sure the consistency is right…not too liquidy or too dry? What??? I need a recipe, a definitive amount to add to the concoction brewing before me. Call me anal, call me what you will. This approach just hasn’t worked for me.

So I was recently reading a novel called Home to Big Stone Gap, it’s a series that takes place in Wise County, VA, coincidently where both sides of my family are from. And the author, Adrianna Trigianni, always puts recipes in her books. And lo and behold this last book had a biscuits & gravy recipe.


So, Sunday night I tried my hand at it. It tasted just like grandmas. Not quite as good, but reasonably similar. The last time I attempted biscuits they were like little saucers and not even the dog would eat them, but these were light and fluffy, still not quite as yummy as Gran’s. Isabelle even sampled the gravy, biscuit, and eggs.

Conrad wasn’t as thrilled with it as he usually is with my Grandma’s cooking, but he ate it and said he liked it (I just think he was glad I was cooking, tho) I might add that the downside to country cooking, is like Indian cooking…all the mess!

The Payne Society Page

This last weekend my Uncle Mick got married. He married (now Aunt) Beverly. She’s great and we all love her. She’s been around a few years and since she has survived several holidays with the, sometimes-rough-around-the-edges-loud-and-obnoxious-but-always-lovable, Payne’s, I think we can assume that she successfully passed the hazing phase and can be called a full fledged member of the Payne Clan.

I have to say that one of Beverly’s great qualities is her impeccable taste. They had a spectacular wedding and I will attempt to sum it up here. The bride looked beautiful and she had four attends dressed in sky blue, two of which were my Uncle’s two daughters, Shannon and Tiffany. The wedding was beautiful and meaningful, I guess, since I spent most of it in the lobby with Isabelle.


The reception was beautiful at the Firestone Country Club. There was (notably) two ice sculptures, and little waiters bombarding you with appetizers as you entered the room. The center pieces were amazing. And, one thing of my favorite things was that the wedding party table had the wedding party, and guest(s) both seated there. It was a double wide, super long table, like a big family table, while everyone else was seated at round tables. Candles sparkled everywhere. The DJ played almost nothing but oldie love songs. The food was wonderful, prime rib being a highlight. And another favorite for us non-drinkers, was the coffee bar at the end, complete with whipped cream and chocolate shavings.


Beside all of the wonderful details Mick & Bev thought of, it was so good to see all of our family, and the music wasn’t so loud that we couldn’t talk. So we sat and talked and danced and ate and laughed. And of course, Isabelle was the bell of the ball. She danced with Oma and Opa, ate cake and mashed potatoes, and finally fell asleep mesmerized by the disco ball.

Easter Pictures, better late than never...

Here are some pictures from our lovely Easter weekend:


This is Isabelle decked out for Good Friday service.


This is Isabelle and Opa opening up her cool easter basket (thank you Oma!)


This is my Papaw & Grandma Payne. Almost all of Easter dinner was courtesy of Grandma and it was good! Didn't Papaw look good that day?


This is everyone at dinner.


This is a baby shitzu that my cousin Tiffany brought over. It was sooo calm and tiny. i don't think that Isabelle realized it was ALIVE and REAL. Needless to say I was more concerned about the dog than her.

All in all, a great holiday...

A Visit from Anthony & Arnold

Next week, on April 18, 2007, our sister-in-law, Anthony Mary, and our nephew, Arnold have a visa appointment at the U.S. Embassy in Chennai, India. The last time they applied to visit, for our wedding, they were promptly turned down, while everyone else in the family was approved. We guess it was just because she’s young and educated that they rejected her application. For so many reasons it’s important that they come. The most important is that they haven’t seen Hubert in over six years! Their appointment will be happening while it is the evening of April 17th for us. We will be fasting and praying with them that this appointment goes well and that they have favor with the U.S. government officials. For my family (or anyone who wants to), I know you wanted to fast with us. E-mail me or post here so we know who is agreeing with us in prayer. Thank you! Thank you!

Bonus Blessings

This weekend we went to my parents for Easter. They let my Grandpa out of rehab on Sunday and it was nice to be together. When your loved one's get older, it seems that each holiday or family dinner is a bonus blessing. I think we are all feeling that way about Papaw.
He has diabetes and is on full dialysis for the past few years. This past year or so has been really rough on him and any little health upset sends his body to the brink. A couple of months ago, they discovered that his circulation in his foot wasn't great and to make a long story short, had to amputate his leg. So now he is getting use to life with one leg, already being shaky on two legs.

They just finished building a beautiful little house attached to my parent’s house, so it's a huge blessing that my grandma has my mom and dad near to help with him. My Dad refuses to put him in a rest home, even though caring for him may be difficult. He says he remembers when he was little and his dad took him hunting. During the trip, he got tired and Papaw carried him the rest of the night on his back. Dad says the least he can do is carry him in his old age.

A few days ago, he had another bad “spell” and all of the pain medication he was on was making him a bit loopy. My Grandma came into his room at rehab and said he was making little baby noises, like he was talking to a baby. And was saying, “Hey, Little Baby,” in his raspy southern voice. My Grandma asked him who he was talking to, and he said, “I was taking to that little baby, and she was here, but then she just disappeared.” She asked, “Are you talking about Isabelle?” He said yes. She laughed and laughed.

Knitting & Husbands

This week we got to see some good friends who live in Michigan, Mike & Cara O and their kids, who came to Columbus to visit. They were staying with our friends Scott and Kirsten and we had dinner with everyone Wednesday night. It was so nice to catch up with Cara. We have been good friends since she moved to Columbus a few years back (and then moved back home a year later). Cara and I were instant close friends as we have very similar personalities and warped perspectives on life!

A few years ago, before most of us were married, our favorite thing to do on a Saturday night was go to Kirsten’s, all of us already in our PJ’s, and bring our knitting (seriously, we were all trying to learn to knit at the time), ice cream, and chick flicks. The four of us (Kirsten, Kim, Cara, and I) sat around, laughed, talked, and drove the lone man (Kirsten’s husband, Scott…also our pastor) crazy! Actually he was quite obliging about the whole thing, as long as we included him in the ice cream, the movie wasn’t too “chicky”, and no one required him to knit.

It is amazing to see where God has brought us all. Interestingly enough, all of my closest girl friends got married within six months of each other. Cara and Kim both married in April of 2005, I followed in May. Cara then had a baby last year, so did we, and Kim is expecting in May! The house was full on Wednesday night with kids and babies running around, not to mention the addition of three husbands. I think Scott was very glad to no longer be the sole male.

This picture above is of Isabelle trying some of Kirsten’s yummy dessert on Wednesday night

My Little Prayer Request...

! Well, maybe I spoke too soon on the whole spring thing, I hear it may snow this week just a little north of us! Urggg! I hope it doesn't hit us! Just a small note. I applied for a job at Ohio State University this week. It's in the office of Intercultural Affairs, a director position. The one I applied for is the director of the Study Abroad program. It's right up my alley and would be quite a promoiton. So, all that to say, it's pretty difficult to get into OSU and it may be a LONG shot to get it, not to mention the position says they are currently considering an internal candidant, but I'm "welcome to apply." So, keep me in your prayers...it's the first job I've applied for in a couple of years that I've been excited about! Thanks

Spring has sprung

I think winter has finally thawed here in Ohio. We are so thankful for sun...yeah!Goodbye dreary days! Here are a couple of pictures of Isabelle, in her spiffy spring coat and then celebrating St. Patty's day :)

Hello, it's me, Isabelle.

Hello, it’s me, Isabelle. Just wanted to see if anyone was out there….Oma? Opa? Aunt Becky? Sudha Auntie? I haven’t gotten any comments on my blog in sooooo long I was beginning to think that no one reads about me, except for Aunt Jona, Aunt Rachel, and Shanygne!? Well?

In case you don’t know how….just click the little tiny grey dialog balloon at the bottom of each post and write me a little note whenever you stop by. Tell me how you are doing.

Me? I’m fine. A little congested, getting over a cold. Lately they have been taking us on stroller rides outside at Daycare. That’s pretty fun, there’s four of us in a stroller. I have some friends I like to hang out with at Daycare, Jemma, Brason, Kelsey (there are no boys in the nursery…that’s okay, girls rule!)

Wedding Showers.

This last weekend we went to a Bridal Shower for my future Aunt Beverly. My Dad’s brother, Mick, is getting married next month. Beverly has been around for a few years and we love her already. Here is a picture of her opening Isabelle and I’s present to her (it was a lovely can opener ) It was a wonderful shower, the food was great, the favors were nice, and the best part…no stupid shower games! Big kudos to Bev’s sister for that one! (I apologize to those of you who love these sad excuses for entertainment) It was also nice to see my Uncle Mick’s daughters, Shannon and Tiffany, since we only seem to see each other at holiday’s and family events.

I also thought I’d throw in this pictures for my Mom and Dad. This onsie is the latest in baby boutique wear at the Wal-Mart in Norwalk, Ohio. Of course, Isabelle looks cute in anything.

Yummmm....

On busy days when I get home at night, I rarely want to cook big extensive meals...well, let's be honest, I rarely want to cook big meals ever. But I digress. One of Conrad and I's favorite meals is one we kind of made up ourselves. So I thought I would share it with you if you are looking for something new and easy and yummy!
Mediteranian Pizza
Flat Bread
Store Brough Hummas
Grilled Chicken, chopped (made eariler in the week for another meal)
Red Onion-chopped
Tomato-chopped
Feta Cheese

Spread on hummas, and toppings, top with Feta, broil for about 10 minutes at 400 degrees. Serve with salad and enjoy!

If you let me know when you'll be here, we'll make it for you next time you visit the Michaels. Or, if you prefer a nice authentic Indian meal...
I think it's Isabelle's favorite too (just kidding, she's not quite to the Pizza phase yet)

Tour Snob

I know many of you will relate to this. I have been traveling around the world, off the American tourist beaten track and I usually hate to go to tourist locations. I really never wanted to visit Australia. Why? Well, EVERYONE wants to go to Australia, so why would I? I can see their pictures and hear their stories, so I don’t need to go. But, Tibet…now that’s a not a typical American vacation destination…now is it?
Anyway, along with my particular travel ideas, I have developed a distaste for “tours.” I always felt that going on a bus with a group of tourists and a tour guide that told you what to do and took you along, following his red umbrella, was the sissy way. I mean, where is the fun in that? No language barriers? No going to the wrong hotel? What?

Well, I am here to tell you that I have officially grown old. Conrad and I went on a “tour” to a park called Xel-Ha while we were in Cancun and snorkled and then to a small ruin on the sea. It was wonderful, in fact, probably the highlight of our trip. And I found out that I LIKED when Humberto (our guide) would tell us what to expect and explain the history of a place to us. I LIKED the fact that I didn’t have to think, just follow and enjoy. I LIIKED the fact that they dropped me off at the door of my hotel that night, the RIGHT hotel, and I didn’t have to struggle to tell them which one it was. Ohhh…I think I’m destine to be a toursist…*sigh*

The Beach Bums Are Back

We had a wonderful time in Cancun this past week. It was so great to relax and rejuvenate in La Caribbea. It was Conrad’s first time visiting that part of the world and he was in awe of the beautiful waters and beaches. Cancun is a little touristy, but the posh resort, right on the beach, with the Jacuzzi bar…on the beach…made up for it. I will say that we missed Isabelle terribly and paid too much money for a few minutes on the internet so we could get on our blog and look at pictures of her!

My old roommate Carrie used to have a “List” she kept. Whenever she saw a person doing something that really shouldn’t be done, she’d say, “Put that on the list! (For example) Never call a girl ‘big’, never call a girl, ‘dawg’ and NEVER call a girl ‘big dawg’!” So during this trip, I observed some things that I would like to officially put on “the list.”
1. Know when you are in the “Shouldn’t wear a bikini” category and embrace it. It’s okay if you can’t, as long as you DON’T. I understand I’m not in the bikini category, fortunately, I know this. I might add that I truly wish modesty dictated more behavior in our society. There was more that one time I was embarrassed to take my Indian husband to scantily clad beach areas!
2. If you are over 60, and over weight, AND have a tattoo on your derrière, DON’T wear a thong! You’d think this would go without saying.
3. I would like to add, no matter how much sunblock you put on, a fair skinned person will get burned in the Caribbean, in the middle of the day. (and I am dreading the itching stage!)

Welcoming P.J.

This weekend I threw a Baby Shower for my friend Kim. It was soo fun...and if I do say so myself, the best baby shower I have ever been too. We did the colors in Baby Blue and Chocolate brown and so many wonderful friends showed up. Kim attends Conrad & I's old church and it was GREAT to see everyone and catch up with all the ladies that showed up to help welcome P.J. (Phil Jr as we lovingly call the baby now

We asked the ladies to write down a piece of advice for child rearing and a funny story about kids and we read these in between Kim opening her presents. One of the best was, "Teach your sons to cook and clean. Your future daughter-in-law's will thank you for this." My favorite story came from Kim's mom, who came from Coschocton, OH for the party. She said that when Kim was about in Kindergarten she used to stand in front of the mirror, and flip her long blonde hair over her shoulder, twirl in a circle with her new dress and say, "I bet the boys will think I'm pretty!" Now that's good self esteem, people.



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Last Weekend In Review

I have been traveling a lot for work this week and by the time I get home I just don't want to get on the PC...so I have slacked in blogging. Sorry about that. Well, last weekend we had a great time at the Stenners. It was great to celebrate Ruth's 60th birthday with her. Elizabeth and Jayden came from North Carolina to visit Grandma for her birthday and it was so great to see them and to see how much Jayden had grown! He is hilarious. He watches veggie tales and dances and sings without any reservations...total freedom. Such a sweet little boy and so changed from the quiet little baby he was when Eli brought him home. Below are some pictures from the weekend.

Other than that, I am hosting a baby shower for one of my best friends, Kim, this weekend and I am so excited about it because I will get to see friends from my old church that I haven't gotten to see in so long! AND Conrad and I are packing and getting ready to go to Cancun next weekend. *sigh* It's bittersweet as we are dreading leaving the baby for four days,even tho she will be in great hands with my mom and dad (thanks by the way, Rents!) And, of course, we are looking forward to four days of sunshine and (thank you Jesus) SLEEP!

Points are now my life

In a desperate attempt to get back (keep in mind I use the word "back" very loosely) into shape, I have joined Weight Watchers. Not as tretcherous as I remember it, since I have tried every diet around. Amoung my favorites, is Body for Life...but I can no longer work out 6 days a week...oh well.

But I am now used to keeping track of everything I eat using the point system. And have discovered many sweet things I can eat and still stay within my point range. I happily report that it's working...and that I find I don't feel like I"m on a diet as long as I can have my lil somthin' sweet everyday. Love that fat free sugar free pudding!

This weekend we saw the Stenner Clan and got tons of great pictures. I will post these when I get home. Right now I'm sitting in the lobby of a Raddison, supposed to be in a seminar, helping running a seminar actually. Slacker.