Saturday, November 22, 2008

A Hooter What?

When I was expecting Isabelle I asked my mom friends for a recommendations of thier favorite products before I registered. I got such great tips (thanks Christy!)that I wanted to pass along my favorite new product.

We were at the play area at our local mall, our usual winter haunt, and I was struggling to feed Grace while maintaining my modesty with a recieving blanket. That's when I noticed this mom across the way with this spiffy apron looking thing around her neck nursing her squirmy toodler successfully. It even had a piece of boning in the collar so you can look down under the cover to see the baby as she nurses.

So I went over and asked her where she got it. After I got the skinny, I immediately went to ebay and bought me a Hooter Hider! It's such a clever invention, I wish I would have thought of it!

Friday, November 21, 2008

The Many Faces of Grace

Grace is such a beautiful baby...of course, I may be a little biased in my opinions. Often during the first month of her life she had a worried expression on her face. I'm not sure if it's just her facial features or what, but I was beginning to be worried that she wasn't such a happy camper. But now she seems much more content and versitile in her expressions!

By the way, we took Grace to the doctor this week and she was 9 pounds 2 ounces! She's gained two pounds in the last month! Yeah for breastfeeding! And, pray for ME if you think of it, this week is our first week Daddy is back at work and I am home with the girls. So far so good. We had a little bit of a rough nap time on Wednesday, but other than that, not so bad!




Saturday, November 15, 2008

Isabelle's Honey


Lately,I am on the couch a lot nursing Grace while I ask Conrad to get me things, "Honey, Can you hand me Grace's burp cloth?" Isabelle has become extremely fluent and parrott-y these days, mimicks what I say, "Honey, hand me burp cloth?" So much so that she has taken to calling her dad Honey. We didn't notice that she had made the name her own until she handed Conrad something with a casual, "Here ya go, Honey."

Friday, November 14, 2008

Rocky Top Tennessee

Today we got back from a very cool mini vacation with my Grandma and my parents to Gatlinburg, TN. We got a very very nice cabin for a few nights and just relaxed. My parents had to work hard to make the time frame work, but we are so glad that they did, because vacation wouldn't be vacation without them...or THREE extra sets of hands to help with the kids so mommy and daddy could take a nap or enjoy the hot tub! It was really relaxing and just a little extravagant!




Saturday, November 08, 2008

It's my Potty

Conrad gets up each morning with Isabelle and puts her on the potty in hopes of potty training her. Me? I'm asleep with Grace..or more appropriately, usually JUST went to sleep with Grace. That's our arrangment: I pull the all nighters and he does the potty training :) Since I'm nursing, there's really no choice there, I guess!

This is Isabelle holding her Jelly Beans, which she gets to choose one if she goes potty. Anyone else have any tips on Potty Training? I haven't had the chance to read any PT books...so we have NO CLUE what we are doing or if we are doing it right?!

Thursday, November 06, 2008

Halloween 08

Sorry it's taken me so long to catch up, we've had computer issues...sheesh. We had a great halloween last week. Isabelle was a butterfly and was totally groovin' with the candy collecting and passing out. She said "trick or treat" and "thank you" like an old pro. We made it down two streets when she started saying "feet hurting mama" because of her costume slippers and "Pants falling down" Referring to her too small tights she had on with her costume that were sliding down. And every woman reading this knows the pain of that feeling, so we headed home. And Grace enjoyed her first Halloween in her Sling riding on Mama.

That day she also had a Halloween party at school where all the kids dressed up and paraded room to room...remember those days at school? We kept the candy collection to what could fit into her small pumpkin basket, and of course, I have been eating it more than her!!



Sunday, November 02, 2008

Little Friends

My friend Kim and I were due one day apart. We both had our babies 9 days early, hence our kids are still one day apart. A few days ago we got together and here is picture of Grace and Aaron.

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Add it to the List

You can add to the list of things I said I'd never do when I had children: Be a "sling mom." You know granola-crunchy-organic-cotton mom's that keep thier infants on thier persons at all times. I bought one. Grace loves it. I love it.

Monday, October 27, 2008

Sleepless in Ohio

Many nights...little sleep. Not much to say, not many coherent thoughts happening. *sigh* This too shall pass.

Monday, October 20, 2008

Maternity Leave-Week 1&2

This first couple of weeks of maternity leave have been wonderful...and rough. As many of you probably know, sleepless nights are no fun, but somehow they seem far more manageable the second time around. Maybe it's the loss of unrealistic expectations. And, I think just knowing that this "season" is such a short one, and soon Grace will be a toddler squirming out of my arms, makes the wakeful nights cuddling with her a little sweeter.

We have been suffering from some serious cabin fever. We aren't used to staying home this much, but on the other hand, we still can't manage to get our act together enough to really do that much. Getting four people ready for anything takes a lot of effort. Today we got up (late after another sleepless night) and went to a park for a walk and to play. The sun was up, the weather was beautiful, and it was just what this house bound family needed. It was a really nice day!

Friday, October 17, 2008

Family Ties

As I'm sitting here today, everyone in my house is asleep...amazing! Except me. I am sitting here and reflecting on what an amazing couple of weeks we have had. In the midst of Grace's birth, we had so much help! I have to say how grateful I am (grateful seems to be a theme for me this month!) to have such a wonderful supportive family. Starting over a week before Grace was born, my Grandma Margie came to stay with us, just in case Grace decided to make an early entrance, we would have someone to stay with Isabelle.

If you have never had the privelage of knowing Grandma, it is certainly your loss. She is one of the most loving, kind, and genuinely Christ-like woman you will ever meet. She is in her 70's and came down for a week to take care of us! Isabelle LOVES Granny too, and thrived staying home with her while we were at work. Thanks Grandma, for all of your help and for adding so much to our lives, just by your presence!

And then, I can't help but be thankful for my parents, who came to help out to. My dad was there for a couple of days (he can't sit still too long, so flitted in and out during the birth process) and he even did some grocery runs and loads and loads of laundry. I think he felt sorry for me one morning, as I was dragging my sleepless self out of bed that first week!

And my Mom, who was there the entire first week after Grace was born. I know I mentioned this before, but her "love lanuage" is acts of service, and this is particularly WONDERFUL when you have some practical "felt needs" that come with having a baby. She tirelessly chased Isabelle around and distracted her, while we were focused on Grace, she gave baths, cooked, rocked, sorted baby clothes, changed lot's of diapers, and everything else that needed done. AND, she did it happily. Thanks Mom and Dad, for being the best Oma and Opa in the world!!

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

The New Big Sister

As we are getting ready to go out for our first real outing with Grace, Isabelle was observing us packing the baby up in the car seat and asked, "Taking Gracie Home?" As in, is it time for her REAL family to get her?

Monday, October 13, 2008

Amazing Grace

As you can imagine, life has been busy with two little ones at home. We have loved it tho! Luckily, my family has been around to help us the first week. My Mom, the final relative hold out, just left us yesterday to our own devices! And, I'm happy to say, we made it through the night! I thought I'd share a bit about Grace's birth, before the details escape me. So, if you are not into birth stories, feel free to skip ahead.

My doctor finally decided to induce us on Monday for the next day, Tuesday, October 7. My parents and Grandma Margie came the night before to keep Isabelle and we got up and out to be at the hospital at 6am on Tuesday. I was a bit more nervous with this delivery than my last because, well...I knew what was coming!

We arrived and got settled in. They started the ptosin about 8am and I got an epidural around 10a, when the contractions were just getting uncomfortable. Everyone was expecting a delivery within a few hours since Isabelle was delivered in only four and a half. Needless to say, I was marking the hours, as the contractions started to get worse and the epidural started to wear off. Oddly enough, I felt lots of labor on my left side, but not much on my right.

I went in to the hospital dialated to about three and progressed to four in about three hours or so! Not much action happening here! Labor got worse and I kept dialating, but the babies head wasn't dropping down low enough to start pushing, so I sat up for a while and labor got really intense! The dr came in and re-did my epidural, and it got a little better...just in time for the pushing part! At about 2:45p, I was dialated to 10 and ready to begin pushing.

We had a great nurse, and between help from her and the doctor, I pushed for about fifteen minutes and with great relief, Grace Christine entered the world at 3:05pm on October 7, 2008. She was a little bruised up from birth, but so breath takingly beautiful!

The moment she came out, I said, "Thank you Jesus!" followed by, "What is it?" Conrad said, "It's a boy!" Then Dr. S said, "No, it's a girl!" Conrad replied, "Well, it looked like a boy..." I think he was just fully expecting a boy.

At 7pounds and 7 ounces, she was almost three pounds bigger than Isabelle at birth, and took several more hours to deliver! We thought they didn't look anything alike, but a few days after her birth, we think they do look quite similar!

Grace is so sweet and I actually get to nurse this little one, which has been a joy...totally exhausting and painful, but a joy, none the less! Our life seems overflowing with blessing right now, and I can't seem to be grateful enough to the Lord for His blessings in our life! But it's kind of cool to hold her late at night as she nurses, and reflect on all God has given me...given us.

Tuesday, October 07, 2008

Grace Christine Michael




Introducing to everyone Grace Christine Michael born at 3:05 PM on 10/7/08.Weight 7.7 lbs, Height 21 inches. Thanks for your continuing support and prayers. Both Danielle and Grace are in good health.

Thursday, October 02, 2008

Week 38 Highlights

Surprise Baby Shower @ Work
Friends from work surprised me with a Baby Shower on Monday and a very nice gift certificate to Target! I’m sure this will come in handy, especially if Baby M is a boy. And he will be forever grateful that his mama didn’t have to dress him in Pink hand-me-downs.


$100 Gift Certificate to How Fast They Grow!
I just created several scrapbook pages on How Fast They Grow, which I LOVE their layout options and designs!! A few weeks back, I got an email asking if they could feature one of my pages in their “Gallery” of our trip to India. I said sure, then found out today, that they chose that page as the September Gallery winner and I got a $100 Gift Certificate to their store! Yeah! And how great to keep up on scrapbooking with the new little one!

She’s starting to get it…
Grandma said she was sitting out with Isabelle on the swing yesterday and Isabelle started rubbing her own tummy and saying, “Baby.” Grandma said it was so cute! Maybe, just maybe Isabelle is starting to understand that we are going to be getting our own baby soon. She’s such a big helper with Abby, her cousin, and with Andrew, Kim’s son, and at home with most things! I’m sure she’s going to grove on being the big sister.

Wednesday, October 01, 2008

Baby Update: 38 Weeks

Yesterday was my weekly OB appointment. The happy news is that I
am 2 cm dilated! That’s great considering I was not progressed at all the week before! Of course, this could mean nothing, as I think I was 3 cm dilated with Isabelle for several weeks. My doctor even started asking me, “Now what time is your last ultrasound on Friday?” She was thinking about bringing me into the hospital on Friday, but decided against it when we discussed that the baby will only just be past 38 weeks. I would really like to be closer to 39! Not that I would complain if I went into labor naturally.

By yesterday evening at work I was feeling so much pressure I was extremely uncomfortable and although I wasn’t having any contractions, I thought surely this was a sign of things to come. But I went home, and thanks to having Grandma there helping out, laid down and the pressure really decreased. I think it must be from sitting in an office chair all day?

Anyway, my last appointment with my OB will be Monday morning, and then she will decide if we are going to induce on Tuesday or Wednesday. So, whatever it is, we will have a baby or be having a baby by this time next week! Yeah!

And to pacify all the grandparents reading this out there, here are some pictures from last weekend at Circle S Farms.

Monday, September 29, 2008

Granny's Here!

Isabelle is at home today with my Grandma Margie. She agreed to come and stay with us for the last week leading up to our delivery day, just in case I should go into labor, we have someone to leave Isabelle with. But it’s also SOO nice not having to get up and get Isabelle ready for daycare and coming straight home after work! It makes our week much smoother!

Isabelle calls Grandma, “Granny” or “Grayiee” This morning I told her to go up and wake Granny up and she got a big smile on her face as she climbed up the stairs and barged into Granny’s room, “Wake Up Grayiee!” and proceeds to talk a mile a minute as she follows Grandma around while she gets up and about. There is indeed no privacy in a two year olds world!

Grandma came on Saturday and Conrad and Isabelle went to pick her up while I stayed home. It seems like being in the car that long makes me start having contractions! Not very comfortable, for sure. Before they left on Saturday night, Isabelle and I went to Circle S Farm with my good friend and ex roommate, Kim and her son Andrew. Isabelle and Andrew were so cute together running through hay bails and climbing on fences. Kim and I are also due one day apart with our second children. So, we were pretty darn cute too. Kim has a scheduled C-section on October 6, so it looks like our number 2’s will probably come two days apart!

Friday, September 26, 2008

The Name Game

Last night, about 10:45pm, after ANOTHER conversation about baby names:

Danielle: Okay, Honey, I’m going to bed. Love you.
Conrad: Okay, are you taking Pete with you? (referring to Baby M)
Danielle: There is no one in my tummy by the name of Pete!
Conrad: Shakespere? Jimmy?
Danielle: Urg. Good Night.

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Isabelle loves those 80's

I just found this in an old file. It's from early summer, and I never posted it because I had turned the camera sideways, and couldn't ever figure out how to manipulate the clip to turn in. If you don't mind watching it with a headtilt, the kid has rhythm...

Baby M, Coming Soon!

Yesterday, I stayed home sick, but didn’t get much rest, because I had two doctor’s appointments downtown. My OB examined me with still no progress to note. BUT, she was happy to hear that I have been having contractions, which means we are heading in the right direction. And, after discussion of dates, and availability, she “tentatively” mentioned Wednesday, October 8 as the “probably” date we would induce Baby Michael, if I haven’t gone into labor before then. I think Wednesday’s are her scheduled days at her office near the hospital, and I’ll be 38 weeks, and 6 days. My last ultrasound is scheduled for October 3, so much of the plan still hinges on that ultrasound and how big Baby M is getting. So two weeks from today will be his/her birthday, if not sooner!!

Consequently, this is our nephew Arnold’s birthday, and he was really hoping that this baby was going to come a week early for this birthday! I told Conrad to call him and tell him that we worked it out as a birthday present for him! Also, Arnold is expecting a little brother/sister in December!


The little smiley boy is Arnold with his cousin Treza.

On other fronts, I feel as if I’ve been run over by a truck. Besides being very pregnant, this cold is wearing me down. Just working 40 hours a week and coming home to spend some time with Isabelle and Conrad is just about more than I can do right now. Needless to say, I can’t wait to have this baby. When I gave birth to Isabelle, I felt like I could run a marathon the next day, I felt THAT MUCH better. I imagine this birth process will feel similarly!

Besides all of the physical preparations, which aren’t much honestly, we have been mentally and spiritually preparing for Baby #2. Maternity leave is restful for a full time working Mom, so we are both looking forward to a little change in schedule. Of course, we can’t wait to find out the gender of this baby and see his/her little face. But we have also begun praying for a healthy birth process and a smooth delivery. Pray with us, over the next couple of weeks, if you think about it!

Monday, September 22, 2008

Catching Up & Catching Cold

Conrad and I had a wonderful weekend. Since Isabelle was as my parent’s until Saturday evening, we went shopping and re-did our bedroom, which I am very pleased with. We got new curtains, which Conrad was totally excited about. I had only valences up (over blinds). He just didn’t get a valence’s purpose. But was excited about the curtains that help keep the early morning sun out. Never mind that they don’t work to keep the early morning children out!


We also got a new duvet and sham’s at West Elm, and new frames and matte’s to highlight our new family pic’s in our bedroom. I’ll post pictures soon. I still didn’t find throw pillows I have been looking for in a nice autumn shade of orange, or a chair slip cover (by the way, does anyone have any good advice on kinds of slip covers to get??), and we haven’t painted the walls yet. But overall, I am still very pleased!

We topped the night off with a late dinner at the Cheesecake factory. Very crowded but the food was pretty good, and of course, the Cheesecake was really good!

I also started the washing and packing process in anticipation of Baby M’s arrival. We got much done before we picked up Isabelle on Saturday night, and by Sunday afternoon I started coming down with a wretched cold. Needless to say, I didn’t get much sleep last night and I was jonesin’ for some Nyquil. Oh sweet alcoholic sleep….I resisted the urge and sucked on sugar free cough drops all night, as I tossed and turned, coughed and blew. It’s already been a long morning.

Friday, September 19, 2008

To Grandmothers House She Goes...

Isabelle is at her Oma and Opa’s house for a few days. We met my parents half way and dropped Isabelle off Wednesday night so she could spend a couple of days with them, while we (meaning I) get some rest. We miss her terribly when she’s gone, and the first night was rather rough. She cried, “Momma” for a quite a while before her grandparents finally got her to sleep! Fortunately for her and for them, the next night went better. And she has spent her time visiting farm animals, going to Cedar Point, and generally being the center of their universe.

I came home from work on Thursday and laid down to take a nap…a nap! Let me tell you, I felt like a new person when I got up. I was rather surprised at how much better I felt! So, my plan is to do the same thing tonight after work…nap. Then Conrad and I have plans to go to some kind of “grown up” restaurant, where it’s relatively quite and no one is dressed up like a cartoon character.

I’m also anxious to get a “to do” list done. Nothing big, actually it has more to do with redoing our room. We bought curtains and picture frames and I have been looking (for a year or more) for a new duvet. I think I found something I liked at West Elm. So a trip to West Elm is also on our agenda for tonight. Now I only have to buy paint and paint the walls (i.e. convince Conrad that painting is something he wants to do!)

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Baby Update

On Tuesday I had my 36 week prenatal exam. This also marks the week where they start checking to see if you are dilating or effacing. And by 36 weeks I’m always amazed how much I’m ready to be checked for this! Needless to say, I have not progressed at all.
Keep in mind, that I also just started twice weekly “Non-Stress Tests” for the baby, and I am supposed to count fetal movement twice a day. So my regular OB appointment is in addition to this. That means, at this point I have three doctors appointments per week. A little overkill, you think?

So, as of today, I am 28 days away from my due date, but hopefully we will deliver even earlier than that, if my body cooperates! Also, as of my last ultra sound, about two weeks ago, they estimated the baby at 5 and a half pounds, which was in the 50-60% percentile. I know they are not always right on, and the further along you get, the less accurate they are.

Now you know all we know on this topic. Make sure you keep checking in…remember after 37 weeks, a baby is considered full term. One more week and he/she can come anytime they are ready….

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Who's Your Daddy?

Is there any doubt who's child this is? And YES, it is indeed MINE. I had 9 months of "morning sickness" to prove it!

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Chicken Korma

Rachel asked me to post a few of my favorite Indian recipes. Since her and Mark are in Malaysia, and there is a large Indian population, they have access to many typical Indian spices and ingredients.

While we were in Indian in the winter, we had dinner at Conrad’s uncle’s house and I discovered one of my newest favorite Indian dishes: Lamb Korma. They served it with this loooong paper thin Indian bread, which I hadn’t ever had before and haven’t ever seen since. It was lovely! So I came home and found a few recipes for Korma, but didn’t get around to making it till recently.

My first attempt at Korma involved chicken instead of lamb. Lamb, especially good lamb, is pretty hard to come by in central Ohio, and secondly, it takes much longer to cook. I especially like lamb made in the crock pot, tho. Anyway, I was skeptical about this recipe, but as it simmered down, it started to look and smell a bit like what I ate in India. It has a large amount of ground coriander seed, which is very pungent. I also take fennel out of ALL recipes that I make because I hate the flavor of fennel!! We ate it with parathas, which we buy frozen from the Indian store and they are wonderful with any kind of curry. They are a flaky and chewy round bread and ever so slightly sweet. You can also eat this dish with rice or chappatis, or just pita bread for that matter!

Consequently, you can tell we are becoming a truly “blended” cultural family because I crave different Indian dishes during my pregnancy (especially ones I can’t have much of, like Masala Dosa, because of the gest. diabetes) and Conrad wants to have something sweet each night before he goes to bed!

I know not many of you will try this recipe, but if you love Indian food, getting this stash of basic spices at a local Indian store you can basically make any Indian recipe. Consequently, I always had nice spice racks that stood empty or with the spices that the rack actually CAME with! Now, I have them labeled and filled with beautiful Indian spices and actually use them all of the time!

Korma
2 pounds lamb (or chicken) cubed
Spice Mixture (you can grind spices in your coffee grinder)
6 tsp ground coriander
1 tsp ground cumin
½ tsp ground red pepper
½ tsp ground black pepper
¼ tsp ground turmeric

½ cup sour cream
3 c thinly sliced onions
4 tbsp vegetable oil
2 tbsp butter
2 inch piece cinnamon stick
4 whole cloves
4 cardamom pods, broken open slightly
2 tsp minced garlic
2 tsp minced ginger
1/4 tsp fennel, coarsely ground
¼ cup canned unsweetened coconut milk
1 ½ tsp salt
¾ c water
1 tsp fresh lemon juice

Marinate meat in mixture of ground spice mixture and sour cream for 30 minutes. In a dutch oven, over medium high heat, fry onion in oil and butter until edges are browned. Add cinnamon, cloves, cardamom, and garlic and ginger (use 4 tsp of garlic ginger paste to simplify recipe). Contiue to fry until onions turn medium brown.
Add marinated lamb to onion mixture and stir over medium to high heat until sour cream disappears and meat is no longer pink on the outside, about 2 minutes. Stir in fennel, coconut milk, salt, and ¾ cup water; bring to boil. Turn heat down and simmer, covered for 30 minutes.

Uncover and simmer for another 20 – 25 minutes to thicken sauce, adding more water if sauce is too thick. At this point, the meat and sauce should have darkened somewhat.

Stir in lemon juice and remove from heat. Taste for salt.